Take one moment to appreciate you, and you may fall in love with yourself for a lifetime

In today’s society many leading worrisome issues are enough to paralyze most people, and especially those who are already feeling deep emotions of despair. More importantly, even though they may be at their darkest point it is still possible to get out of the shadows and into the light. However, because each person’s situation is unique in and of itself, it is difficult to analyze and find a cure to their personal demon stealing away their joy.
Specialists feel they have found the cause and cure, and have chalked it up as the disease of Depression, and also for many years have offered pills as the cure to make things ‘better’, but for some it has only made the condition worse.
More increasing these days some folks are freely calling their lack of motivation the ‘disease’ of Depression. While at the same time, angrily complaining and making excuses why life is not going well for them, and they are not realizing it is precisely their acceptance of the ‘disease’ that has completely crippled them from gaining their optimal success.
Most of the complaints made by professionally diagnosis Depressed people are legitimate, because some of the cases are severe. Some cases of Depression could involve traumatic abuse during childhood, causing a sense of inner sadness, which has now affected the person detrimentally in their adult years. A faulty marriage could drain anyone emotionally, leaving them feeling lost and insignificant. Moreover, these day’s people are feeling the financial strain, and due to the economical pressure, are finding it difficult to enjoy the fruits of their labor. Actually, between career chores, and taking care of home responsibilities, life has become one big duty, and for some life is less favorable to take pleasure in.
On the other hand, if someone who is sad takes just a moment, especially in a moment of darkness, to understand their weaknesses and appreciate their strengths, no matter how insignificant they may seem, then eventually your weaknesses will become strengths as well. Then it is precisely those weaknesses, which become extra strengths that will lead you out of despair.
Very rare will you find an over night solution in a package, a pill, or even an elixir, because if it is peace, joy and success you yearn for, then you will have to work to earn it, and it will not be hard at all. First, just simply accept the inevitable negatives in life as learning curves, ways in which you can experience ups and downs and grow from them. Even if the experience leaves you feeling horrible, just draw from it what lessons you can and move forward.
Overall, you will be more knowledgeable and ready to take on any challenge life has to offer. You will also gain a deeper understanding that ‘sad’ or ‘uncomfortable’ times does not equate to depression, it simply means you need to find new meaning in your life, so the storm cloud will move. Then you will never be depressed, and yes perhaps you may be sad at times, but the despair will not rule or ruin your future.
These days and all too often, individuals seem to be forgetting about “Self-love” and inner fulfillment. Instead they are more willing to beat themselves up, web their thoughts into a mental spiral of negativity, and accept defeat, but in the end blame it all on Depression as the culprit. Do not be one of the masses who give in to the disease of the day just to accept demise and shallowness. Instead live with depth, culture your mind, free your thoughts and inspire your soul. Embrace your life and encourage your destiny. Many others can help you, but at the end of the day, it is only you who can fix you.
Loving YOU and understanding your faults will take you to higher heights than you could imagine.

Written by
~Cerise~

Sexing the Bosses Husband- tsk tsk tsk

The other day an acquaintance of mine, we will call her 'Pinecone' for privacy reasons, told me she was in love with her bosses husband. Of course my initial response was "don't go there"! However, she did not listen, and last Friday ended up getting into a one night stand with her bosses husband.
In the middle of their passionate throws he mistakenly called her by her coworkers name Karmalitia, ouch, and he didn't he even realize it!
Pinecone didn't say a thing at the time, and she actually pretended to not even notice that this dude fully called her by the office sluts name! Wow, talk about being a solider and remaining tough in the art of war!

Anyway, even though she managed to hold her tongue and shut her mouth during the 'do', she couldn't hold it any longer by the weekends end. Which brings me to my blog topic, just about four hours ago, on this rainy Monday, she sent an anonymous mass email, carbon copying everyone in the company and also the bosses husband, letting everyone know that Karmalitia and the bosses husband are sleeping together!

Shortly after the email was sent, the boss left the office for the day, Karmilitia was crying all morning, and the bosses husband responded to the email saying "whoever sent this email will be very sorry".
What was Pinecone's response to all their reactions? She smiled and laughed, feeling good that she got her revenge on her tyrannical boss for constantly tearing her down. She really couldn't stand the Office slut, so just setting her up for a fall made her feel all that much better. And last but not least, she felt great about getting the bosses husband back because clearly he deserved it.

Hmmm, isn't life something else...I'll keep you posted as to what Pinecone's karma presents to her. After all, her actions were not pure either, and what goes around comes around.
Stay tuned, this could get interesting, and you could learn a valuable lesson of revenge and Karma.

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Reduced Session Fee's

Hey Family and friends, hope you are all well. Thank you for visiting my site for updates on things. Well first of all for the month of April, every thursday all new clients and existing clients get 45 minutes at the 30 minute fee.