So You Like Somebody

So you like someone- Actually you want them bad, but it feels as though they are cutting you off before the two of you have the opportunity to really understand each other.
Granted you went out a few times or more, and you got close enough to have an intimate encounter or two, but now the person seems to be making themselves incognito.
Their hot and cold behavior has you confused, and aside from them not answering your texts, ignoring your calls, not replying to your emails, you have no real way of knowing if they are getting rid of you, or if they are genuinely busy.
On the other hand, you are positive they received your attempt to contact them, but it irks you even more not having a reason for their non-reply. From your point of view the two of you had a wonderful time in each others company. You both are looking for the same thing out of a relationship, and you seemed to hit it off, but for some reason this person is MIA and now you are left thinking about them constantly, waiting for their reply and wondering why they are not contacting you.
With the compatibility factor being so high, you thought for sure this person had potential to be ‘the one’. Now as you’re waiting to hear from them, you ponder the times you were together, the laughter you shared, and the happy times you planned for the future. While you are deep in thought you unwillingly also torture your mind, wondering what happened to make them turn away. Was it you? Your appearance? Your personality? Maybe they were offended by something you said, or something you did, but no matter what, now you’re to the point of feeling rejected, perhaps even unworthy.
Nevertheless, I’m sure you can conjure up a multitude of reasons why this person has gone undercover, but no excuse will be comforting enough until you know the real reason. So why create negative energy for yourself trying figure things out by rehashing an already uncomfortable situation?
In the end you can ponder all you like, but the most important thing is to make sense out of nonsense. So now let’s look at the situation logically. This person is not contacting you, which at best means they truly are busy, or at worse, they have decided to ice you for a while if not indefinitely. Either way, you have no choice but to relax and have acceptance. Allow nature to take its course- without stressing yourself- and you will feel much better during the process, because it will take less emotional energy out of you.
Not only that, when you do not expend unnecessary energy worrying about something you have no control over, you have the chance to increase your inner power, and enhance your outer beauty by focusing on you only.
Less anger and hurt, more understanding and love is what will make any negative situation positive.
So do not drive your mind insane wondering, pondering and contemplating when, how, and where they will contact you, just ‘DO YOU’, and then you will be fine.

TIP:
The sooner you start doing you, the sooner your energy gets back into balance. When your energy is balanced you prosper at a faster rate.